I'm Just Sayin...
Understanding The Mind Of Cindy Anthony
6/25/2011 12:54:36 AM
Men and women alike around the globe are glued to their television sets, computers and smart phones, watching, listening and keeping track of the most incredible trial ever. And yes, that includes the O.J. trial. 
 
We've had some very riveting moments, but at the end of each day, the prosecution seemed to prevail. Then, on Thursday, June 23, 2011, Cindy Anthony, Casey’s mom and Caylee’s grandma, took the stand for the defense and all hell broke loose! 

There were a couple of times I thought Assistant State Attorney Linda Drane Burdick, leading the cross examination, was going to hurl herself onto the witness chair and try to choke some sense into Cindy. I think some viewers wanted to do the exact same thing.
 
Under oath, Cindy admitted to performing searches for chloroform, alcohol and other suspicious chemicals on the family desktop computer. She stated it was she, not Casey, who made those incriminating searches, although in the deposition and according to work records, that would have been impossible. 

Cindy, by her own mouth, previously claimed to be at work that day during those times. Do you think she’s lying? Do you blame her for what she did? Do you hold this against her?
 
Let's stop a moment. Consider what Cindy Anthony is going through. She is a mother who has lost her beloved granddaughter. If that isn't bad enough, she is facing the very sobering fact that her daughter is charged with the murder of the child. 

Now Cindy has the real possibility of also losing her only daughter to a sentence of death. From the beginning of the trial, the prosecution stacked the deck against Casey Anthony. Until yesterday.
 
Cindy was visibly different yesterday; her dress and demeanor were different. She was dressed for business rather than the regularly flowered outfits; she was ready for the questions and ready to answer, as opposed to being the emotional mess she had been previously on the stand. 

There's much at stake for Cindy. She does not want to lose her daughter to a lethal injection, even if she killed her own little daughter. Cindy just can't let that happen to Casey. She is a mother fighting for the life of her child. It's the most basic instinct for any mother.
 
So I ask you, what would you do if you were in Cindy's shoes? What if you truly believed there was at least a decent chance that your daughter was innocent? Would you give her the benefit of the doubt?

I believe in people taking responsibility for their actions. However, if faced with these circumstances, would you take a chance that could lead to the death penalty or would you tell a few lies to help her case?
 
It's easy to be an arm chair quarterback, but until we are in that position, we cannot say definitely what we would do. But for all of you out there wondering why she did what she did this is the answer. 

She has been through hell and it's not over yet. To possibly save the life of her daughter, she has perhaps fallen on her sword. Do not condemn Cindy without first doing some introspection. Faced with the same set of circumstances, you just might have done the same thing.
 
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24 Comments
6/25/2011 2:12:18 AM
Many have already convicted Casey of the crime of which she has been accused. I will wait to make my judgment when all the evidence has been heard and the attorneys rest their cases. Anyone who does otherwise is none too bright.
6/25/2011 12:11:16 PM
Cindy Anthony had made the statement about doing the chloroform search weeks prior. I remember hearing one of the commentators maybe the 2nd day of the trial state that Cindy had already made statements that she was the one who did the chloroform search. I can't remember whether it was in the police statements (that's what I'm thinking) or was defense scuttlebutt. So this is not anything that just got cooked up, though it may well have been cooked up back at the time she originally said it. If it was police statements, that would have been a long while ago.

There is no evidence, including the heart on the duct tape, that couldn't have been done either by the dad or by Casey. He's a cop. He would know how to stage it. Not saying it's my predominant belief, but if there was abuse and if he did it, he could still have staged it to look like Casey and then did everything publicly to make it look like he was trying to help her to protect himself. Amateurs who kill people they love don't usually know enough to put tape over the mouth to keep out bugs or prevent evidence from leaking from the body. A cop would know that. Amateurs who kill loved ones usually cover them a some sheet or plastic or something, not wrap their head in duct tape. There is no skin on the duct tape, so I tend to believe the expert who said it may have been used to keep the skull together for disposal (and/or staging). Certainly the body may have been moved from its original dump site. That's not unusual.

I personally find the brother's demeanor very off, and I find it a little creepy that the mother was standing by smiling broadly at him as he spoke on the tape from that memorial speech he gave when he surreptitiously only used the initials for the deceased, which just happen to also be Casey's initials, and in which he alludes to a secret promise, never clarifiying to whom the promise was made.

I certainly know that most mothers will remain in denial about the guilt of their child, whether it be playground bullying or murder and even if faced with the truth would do anything to protect their child, unless they themselves are the abuser or the enabler of the abuser (also possible in this case), in which case they'll say anything to protect the abuser.

I don't see why the chloroform search is that big a mystery to begin with, given that the male friend had blogged about using it to disable someone on his website. If I had seen that on a friend's website, I believe I would have immediately (if I didn't already know about it) googled chloroform so I could see what he was talking about so I'd know just exactly how serious or dangerous the friend might be. It seems completely reasonable to me. It's unlikely he'd have posted that if he was complicit in the child's death, however. If they have solid evidence of chloroform that couldn't have been created some natural way, from decomposition of fast food, for example, then that's certainly danging evidence, but not because of the google search.

The fact that Casey created a whole family for Zanny and that there were even searches on that same computer attempting to look up Zanny's relatives, along with all the other lying, makes it pretty clear there's a major mental disorder with Casey. For people who can compartmentalize, it's perfectly possible to suffer a loss one day and be off partying the next to escape having to think about it and deal with it. I think it's strange that we're not hearing from a lot of psychiatrists nailing down exactly what is up with Casey and getting a diagnosis. I have to guess the defense didn't think it would be beneficial to the outcome. They surely must have had her analyzed.

My opinion on this case hasn't changed that much since the beginning when I lost interest for lack of evidence. They don't know how the child died, and I think more than one person was involved in the disposal of the body, though I'm not sure any two people know everything that went on. If enormous public bias is overcome, I think they should end up with reasonable doubt, though there's no doubt something secretive and terribly wrong happened within this family.
6/25/2011 7:55:11 PM
This reminded me of a story about 15 years ago in Greece... although there is no death penalty, but a life-sentence.

A 24 year old boy had purposely killed a girl. Few days later he confessed it to his father. Noone else knew. His father could either lie and cover him, or hand him over to the police. He went and confessed his thoughts to a priest. The priest told him, he had to tell the police. He told his son, and they both agreed they ought to reveal the crime. He chose that his son is better off punished now, by doing a life sentence, rather than punished eternally... By doing this, the tragic father was exalted in the public eyes, as a hero. The son, although hated by all, he received some public pity... At least there was honesty and regret...
DDA
6/28/2011 11:41:11 AM
That's the way it should be, Linda.
DDA
6/28/2011 11:41:48 AM
Thanks Lola. I personally think she will get off due to “reasonable doubt”.
DDA
6/28/2011 11:42:24 AM
Truly one of the hardest things either of them ever had to do. I doubt we will never get the truth out of the Anthony’s however, even after the trial.
7/2/2011 11:44:54 PM
I have not been following the case hardly at all until a few weeks ago. Personally I don't think that high profile cases should be publicized because i think that public opinion affects the outcome of the findings and evidence. This case has turned into a circus full of drama. As a mother if anything like that happened to my kids,I wouldn't interfere with the police and the collection of evidence. We all make life choices and if your children make wrong choices its their mistakes to learn from on their own, they are not the parents mistakes to fix or alter. I have to wonder why no mental evaluation has been admitted for the well being of Casey? I hate to see cases like these where so much injustice is done to protect people that compromised the whole case. Are they really that stupid?
DDA
7/5/2011 3:17:30 PM
And there's probably plenty more that we don't know about, Sherry. It really has become a media circus. Almost over!
7/5/2011 6:30:41 PM
I think it's likely that the defense carefully negotiated deals between the family members to keep them all from burning each other with testimony to get reasonable doubt. I still think there are secrets among them and more than one of them was some way involved. I still think Casey has some disorder that includes disassociation and compartmentalization, and that it's unlikely she got that spontaneously, so I believe the family carries a very high level of toxicity and dysfunction, including possible pedophilia that they're all covering up. If Casey is compartmentalized, she might not remember details. I can't help but view the mother as a classic blinders-on enabler, except I see her as protecting the father and son as well as Casey. I think it's a shame this child's death goes unvindicated, but I am glad the jurors found reasonable doubt, because I don't know how you could do otherwise without operating strictly from bias. I will say that the system is terribly flawed though. A jury of my peers would not include anyone who hadn't heard about the Casey Anthony case, didn't read or watch the news enough to be informed, and who came to the table without having formed any opinions. That's just not natural, and I wouldn't want such jurors determining my fate. I'd want them smart and well informed.
7/6/2011 4:39:52 AM
I have to wonder why the jury wasnt arround for some of the stuff that was going on in the court room? I heard reports that they didnt get to see or hear specific parts of the trial. How are Jurors suppose to render a valid verdict if their environment inside the courtroom was altered? I wouldnt call that a fair trial. That family is marked for life now, They are left to face their neighbors who dont want to live next door to murderers. They would know more about the Anthony family more than anyone else. It wont be the last time Casey is in trouble with the law. I associate her behavior simular to Tania Harding as far as the attention goes. She gets to live with her own guilt and have it in her face everyday because of the public trial.
DDA
7/12/2011 9:36:05 PM
Me, too, Lola.
DDA
7/12/2011 9:36:52 PM
And she will also profit by this as well, Sherry! Sad!
7/27/2011 10:23:34 PM
Dr. Archer, If he had any respect and dignity to reclaim it would be to start a foundation to help the very people kids who were sexually abused since she made that allegation in court about her dad. I would think publishers wouldnt want to profit from her story unless all the proceeds went too those organizations for sexual abusive children.
8/1/2011 9:13:41 AM
I would never lie under oath for my child. I love them like all moms do, but I could not push a crime victim under the bus.
8/1/2011 9:44:14 AM
I still cannot get over how easily the defense duped so many people into thinking that somehow the whole family is a bunch of murderers! Just stand up and say,"She was accidentally drowned and her father molested her," and everyone believes it with no evidence at all? After the trial, the defense was asked pointed questions about Caylee dying in a pool accident and they just shrugged,"We don't know what happened." The child is dead, the mother refuses to tell any one anything, accident or otherwise, but never places the child in care, custody, or control of any real person but herself. Do you really believe 2,3,or 4 adults were in on this and no one broke? Impossible. That just doesn't happen in real life. The reason we don't know anything about what actually occurred is because a really good liar did this and has never spoken to anyone about it. She is an expert at keeping her lies straight, never changing her story, and never confiding her true self to anyone. I don't understand exactly how knowing the precise mechanism of death was all that crucial to reaching a verdict. The kid didn't kill herself and she didn't put herself in a garbage bag and walk on over to the swampy area. And who expected any skin to remain on anything after six months in the Florida sun and humidity? I've lived in different parts of the country and nowhere but in the south have I had to buy individual packets of seasonings, broths, etc for recipes. Once you open a container of these type of dry ingredients and do not refrigerate it, within 6 months the ingredients are clumped together so tight, I've bent spoons just trying to scrape out a little bit for a recipe. And this is in my kitchen cabinet, shut as tightly as I can shut it. If they were left out in the steamy heat of July and August in a dark trash bag in a swampy area, the stuff would be completely useless in 6 weeks. I know the family dynamics are dysfunctional, but all dysfunctional families are dysfunctional in their own unique way. In no way does that make all of them criminals. The complete loss of common sense in this case astounds me. George was edgy and uptight. Who wouldn't be after all this and then being accused publicly of molesting his daughter not even by his daughter but a criminal defense attorney? I still believe George owes Baez one good punch in the face, nothing more and George should then pay the fine, do the time, whatever. The defense never made deals with the parents or brother or he should have his license revoked. It absolutely blows my mind that all common sense was left at the door. Come in without bias, absolutely. Come in without brains? Priceless!
8/1/2011 9:47:18 AM
Dr. Dale, I never believed Casey was much in danger of the death penalty. A hot chick like that? The male jurors would never have condemned her to death, even if there was a video of her killing Caylee!
DDA
8/3/2011 12:11:07 AM
Unfortunately there will be many who want to profit from her story.
DDA
8/3/2011 12:15:11 AM
Especially when that crime victim was your granddaughter.
DDA
8/3/2011 12:17:02 AM
You and most of the country feel the same way, Wendy.
DDA
8/3/2011 12:17:36 AM
There is definitely a double standard at play. Lady Justice blind? I think she sneaks a peek now and then.
8/16/2011 3:01:01 AM
If Casey Anthony were in Menninger Clinic in Houston undergoing intensive in-patient therapy along with her family, she would more than likely be diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Her mom would be discouraged (by the team of therapists) toward any further attempts of saving her daughter, lying for her daugher, taking the rap for her daughter, protecting her daughter, dismissing her daughter's behavoior etc. Once borderlines are shown that the hooks they have in their family members break off - so to speak - is when the borderline gets better. Please - if you are reading this and anyone in your family has been diagnosed wth BPD - please call your local NAMI association and ask about Family Connections - a 12 week course - free of charge - dedicated to helping family members learn SKILLS necessary to take care of themselves, cope with thelr love ones behaviour and begin a journey toward healing. God help us all -- because this very serious mental illness is becoming more and more prevelant - and it is truly underdiagnosed. And.....too few therapists understand or know anything about Dialectical Behavioral Therapy - which is the ONLY eveidence based therapy that is used with successful outcomes for borderlines. Thanks for reading.....this mom of a 33 year old, female borderline sufferer. great website is www.borderlinepersonalitydisorder.com
DDA
8/19/2011 12:30:35 AM
Thank you for sharing that site with us, Granny. Great comments, as well.
8/19/2011 8:50:08 AM
I don't understand why so many people want to canonize Anthony's mother. There's been more than one person close to Anthony, her fiance for one, testify she was a verbally abusive self-esteem-shattering harrion. Casey didn't get like that in a vacuum.
DDA
8/19/2011 2:13:42 PM
I didn't know Cindy was being canonized. Yes, there have been many testify to her outrageous, hurtful outbursts.
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